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Saturday Night Social 🌙

  Happy Saturday night, my friends! May you all be equally content & warm as this cuddle puddle. It's freezing here, but a warm up is on the way Monday. Rare win for the worst day of the week. It's certainly been a fucking week from hell. I'm opening a bottle of wine & watching movies with Pal. One Battle After Another has been lingering on our list & is up first, followed by Best in Show. 😭 Catherine O'Hara was such a bright light & we'll miss her terribly. What's up?

Weekend Vagenda OT

  Good morning, y'all--how's your weekend looking?  It's been rough here, with ICE and ICE impact on students. I got some faculty together and we're planning a teach in. It's not much but it's what I got. And the nice thing: we've partnered with a couple of student clubs and these students are so smart, driven, community-minded, and  angry --they give me hope.  

Fuck It/Fuck Yeah Friday

 Fuck, I just woke up!  Fuck the tricks that winter is playing on us this year.  It's been a slog and we're what, halfway through?  Stay strong y'all.  Fuck ICE, 47, every single repub and the fascist fucks that endorse and support it all.   Fuck yeah to a lovely day yesterday.  I'm hoping for more like it this year.   And now, I need coffee.  Take it away y'all. 

Th. AM OT

  Morning, GT--how you doing? What's up with you today? 

Wednesday's OT

  Good morning, groupthink! It remains an icy mess here, but Pal is slowly making his way into work this morning. I'm going a little stir crazy, but should make it until tomorrow when things finally melt a little more. Morale is beyond low for everyone who doesn't have power restored yet. I still can't believe how lucky we got.  How's your day looking?  And Fuck ICE

Tuesday open thread

  We're still digging out; cars are snowed in, and driveways are blocked. I'm getting low on cat food, so I'll have to go out. How's everybody else doing?

Monday OT

  My boys are going to the Super Bowl!  I'm sketching out my game day cake right now.   I am pre-posting because the big storm is now headed towards the shire.  We are still water-less and hunkering down for the day.  If I have internet, I'll talk to y'all tomorrow. I'm having a little snack and heading off to bed. Hope everyone is staying warm and safe.   How is your day and week looking? And what's your go-to football or party foods? 

Sunday OT

  Good morning, GT. Happy Sunday.  Alright, today is just starting and I’ve already decided I’m loafing. Football will be on, I will be on the couch with the pups, and that’s basically the plan. I’m feeling very blah about everything going on. It’s hard to fully relax when the world feels so heavy right now. My usual distractions are just not doing it right now.  Anyway, what’s everyone up to today? Staying in, watching games, forcing yourselves outside in the cold? Hope you’re all staying safe and warm.

Saturday Night Social 🌙

  Happy Saturday night, everyone! It's been a weird & sad snowy day. I'm leaving my blanket nest soon to start some kale, sausage, & potato soup. I hope everyone is staying safe & warm. 🩵 What's up?

Weekend Vagenda OT

  Hey, folks, happy weekend--what are you up to today?  I'm so fucking proud of our neighbors to the north!!  

Fuck It/Fuck Yeah Friday

 Hello Friday!  How's everyone in the snowpocalypse belt doing?   I am hoping to get out on my snowmobile today. Aside from a few hours on a rental last winter, I haven't been out there in a few years. I can't believe it's been that long!  I am hoping that I am still capable of handling my machine and that I still enjoy it.  I guess that's a fuck maybe. There is a lunch place just off the trail I'll be on though so fuck yeah to takeout! I see a yummy salad in my future.  All of my Poshmark orders came in this week and I LOVE every piece I ordered. There's one live show I've been following there that I really enjoy.  There's more coming next week too now lol. Fuck yeah to my fancy new purse!  As for fuck its, the list is long and it's all political.  Vance sounded so very convinced at yesterday's Minneapolis press conference. I am convinced that they believe their own lies.  Fuck ICE and fuck our seemingly impotent congress for just ...

Th. AM OT

  Morning, y'all--happy Th. If you're getting hit by the cold and/or snow, I hope you're safe today.   Tomorrow, we're supposed to be at -40 or so windchill. I'm thinking I'm going to cancel classes if our dumbass college president doesn't.  Oh, and good news! The appeals committee upheld my findings for Cheating Student and I hope to never, ever hear or see from them again. :D Is it wrong to hope they cried when they got the letter? I know it's not FIF but fuck ICE, just for the sake of it.  How are  you ? 

Wednesday's OT

  Good morning, groupthink! I overslept again. It's grey & rainy & not my fault, lol. Soon, I need to fight the hordes preparing for The Storm of the Century.  How's your midweek so far? Today definitely feels like a Tuesday.

Tuesday open thread

  It's going to be coooold here over the next few days; down to -22 C/-7.6 F. I hope my heat pump can keep up. Stay warm, everyone!

Monday OT

Good morning.  Holy shit there's a lotta snow out there!  I wonder what I'll do today? ... How's it looking out your window?

Sunday OT

  Good morning, everyone. Happy Sunday!  I don’t know about you all, but a Sunday before a holiday is my favorite. Another day to relax without having to think about going to work the next day.  Anyway, today I’ll be watching football and picking up an order from World Market. I want to restock my pickled veggies and grab a few snacks for the week.  How are y’all doing today? 

Saturday Night Social 🌙

  Happy Saturday night, friends! It's freezing for a lot of us this weekend. We're hibernating properly & indulged my week long craving for cheeseburgers via delivery. Living the luxe life, lol. We also watched the new Agatha Christie adaptation, Seven Dials, this morning. It's engaging & a short commitment. Now, it's time for football & the chicken & veggie stew I made yesterday. It has tons of fresh herbs & smells amazing. January sucks, but I do love soup season. What's up?

Weekend Vagenda OT

  Good morning, y'all--happy weekend. What are you up to this weekend?  We are getting cold, cold weather this weekend, and it was a long, long week, so I'm seriously considering a duvet day at some point this weekend.  How about you? 

Fuck It/Fuck Yeah Friday

 Oh the list of fucks is a long one- all with the same theme- ICE, repubs, Fascism, insomina... I know.  My state rep is introducing a bill to redirect ICE funding to healthcare subsidies.  I don't know how much of a chance it has, but I like the continued pushback.   Changes big and small are afoot here at casa Phoebe.  I like where we're headed with decor and furniture. It's making me happy thinking about moving forward with things. There's a little trepidation there because there is no end to other shoes that drop, but one can't stay static.  I've figured out what to do with the space above my cabinets and that little project will keep me smiling (and shopping!) for a while I think.  Yesterday I took a long, rainy walk with Finn. It was glorious. Today I'll go into town and maybe do another walk- if I can find someplace accessible along the way. It's a strange winter here with snow, rain, ice and mud.   Lastly, repeating my hope that ...

Th. AM OT

  Morning, y'all--how's your week going?  Classes started this week and I have one more stupid appeal meeting for Cheating Student. In addition to *exhausted gesture towards a burning world.* How about you?   

Wednesday's OT

  Good morning, groupthink! It's rainy & I overslept. Good thing Pal has band practice & I decided on a little me time after some crazy nightmares.  Now that I've had a little caffeine, is there a movie you've seen a thousand times, but will still happily rewatch? Mine is Fargo. It's one of the (and definitely the best) 4 movies we owned at my old college house. I'm surprised the tape still played we watched it so many times, lol. How's it going? 

Tuesday open thread

  I'm not planning much today. Anybody else venturing out if they don't have to?

Monday OT

 Hiya gang. Well, I did it.  I cleaned the shower.  That thing was saying things about me that I wouldn't want anyone to know.   I should feel a sense of accomplishment, but the shame is too lingering. And sadly, with my water filter not working (again) it's going to turn orange again within a couple of weeks. I should just get black fixtures.   Finn is loving his fancy new crate and I wish that my phone was working properly so I could show y'all how handsome he looks in it.  Honestly, it's like an AI photo off Amazon or something. There's lots going on in the world but I don't know where to start with that or even if I'd want to.  Vent away if you need to though.  Shit's getting crazy out there.   How are you doing today?

Sunday OT

  Good morning, everyone. Happy Sunday!  It’s early and cold and once I get this post up I’m going back to sleep. Hopefully.  How is everyone doing today? 

Saturday Night Social 🌙

  Happy Saturday night, my friends! It's looked similar to this all day here. There's a fire going while I watch the end of the Vanderbilt v LSU basketball game. Vandy is undefeated so far & it's pretty cool to have my never winning team on top in two sports this year. Pal will be home soon & we have plans to watch the Bears game later. Here's a random topic I thought of when I finally lost my scavenged bookmark today--do you use actual bookmarks or random whatever? My last one was the inner wax wrapper from a Ricola cough drop. 😂 I used it for months.  How's your night going?

Fuck It/Fuck Yeah Friday

 I cannot believe that it is Friday again already.   I have to start with fuck ICE.  I'm afraid to say that it can't get more surreal than this because we know how that goes.  All of my respect and admiration goes to the brave souls out there fighting the good fight- in the street, with their wallets, on their keyboards, in their hearts.      Also, as I write this at 1:30 am, fuck insomnia. Apparently sleep aids contribute to sleep apnea, so I guess my days of relatively normal sleep are done.  From now on I will rest like an infant in 2-3 hour spurts between snacks & bathroom trips.  In fuck yeah news, I guess fuck yeah that we had planned on buying new living room furniture.  Our old salt of a fisherman friend stopped by yesterday.  He's elderly and a bit infirm nowadays. He's also in need of a bath.  I had to open the windows and stand far away from him while he was here. And on the leather sofa, he left a spot wher...

Th. AM OT

  Good morning, y'all--how you doing?  Good news here: the academic integrity committee upheld my finding with Cheating Student, so that's one appeal down. Now I can focus on getting my actual work for my actual job done the rest of this week. I never thought I'd be so happy to revise syllabi.  Today is a day of meetings for me. How about you? How's your week winding down? 

Wednesday open thread

  I don't see a post scheduled, so here's a quick one.

Tuesday open thread

  Is everybody (except Ginaa, who's probably too warm!) staying snug? 

Monday OT

 Good morning!  Sorry for the late post, I have lost track of what day it is.   It's windy and snowy here, just like yesterday and probably just like tomorrow.  How's your day looking?

Sunday OT

  Good morning, GT. Happy Sunday!  I went to bed early last night so now I’m up way too early. It’s very chilly too so I’m going to keep myself in bed for awhile.  How’s everyone doing today? Any plans to close out the weekend? 

Saturday Night Social 🌙

  Happy Saturday night, friends! May I offer you a cute, baby attack kitten on this weird & scary first weekend of the year? Good grief. It's been a quiet day here. Ruby is currently staring at me & hoping we're going to take one more walk before sunset (we definitely are). There's still a nice bottle of champagne in the fridge that we didn't open on NYE. I'm thinking it will pair well with a snack board of leftover holiday treats.  What's up? 

Weekend Vagenda OT

  Morning, GT--welcome to the first weekend of the year. What are you up to this weekend?  We were supposed to do a mini Christmas celebration with my brother's family today but Homey and I are still under the weather, and my SIL is sick, too. Womp, womp. Instead, we'll drop off and pick up presents from their porch. Whaddya gonna do?  Anyway! How about you? Are you running or relaxing this weekend?

Fuck It/Fuck Yeah Friday

 Happy First Friday of 2026!  We got here gang.   Let's get to it. Fuck yeah to Christmas cookies.  Nuff said on that.  Fuck yeah to the chillest most authentic feeling Christmas/holiday week I think I've ever had.  I think that this is what it's supposed to be like?  Who knew? And now-- One of the women in my friends group wants to go on a winter hike. If we make it up the mountain road we can navigate snow, ice and lord knows what else. None of that sounds like anything I want to do.  Fuck that.  I will meet them for brunch afterwards though!  Anyhow, there's more but I am trying to focus on positive stuff while I get through this mess here.  Let's hear what you've got today!  

NYD 2026!

  Good morning, GT, and happy new year!  What are your plans, goals, hopes, or resolutions for the coming year? And how are you kicking off 2026?