Morning, GT--happy midweek! What's up with y'all, today? Vent incoming, please feel free to skip: I had a retreat for my fellowship over the last couple of days and, hooo, boy! There's a man I cannot stand in this group and working this closely with him... I don't know, y'all! This is a DEI group and he's a cis-het, middle-aged, white dude who only came to this work because of his new romantic partner. And he's the most performative, self-centered doucher! He is constantly, constantly talking over other people (great practice in social justice spaces, asshole!), focusing on what he has done and others haven't, and trying to get attention from the group, but also other faculty, the students, community members... he keeps talking about the group's "visibility." Honestly, I don't care if we get any attention or visibility, and I don't think anyone else on the group does--we just want to help our students and co-workers. We want p...